That is one thing i do not tolerate.
a point where you and another person are just sitting there, looking at the wind blow by.
I can be shy at times, but i still know how to initiate conversation, speak on an interesting topic, and keep it flowing.
I can do that.
Sarcasm helps a lot.
BUT if you cant even remotely do half of what i just mentioned, i am not going to be interested.
i feel like guys have it easy when it comes to girls, they dont know how to work.
and apparently starting a conversation is part of "work".
if i am meeting up with a man, i refuse to talk my own ear off; if i am pausing, i am giving you a chance to respond, and that's usually where the silence comes and im forced to roll my eyes and basically understand, "this is not going to work in any way, shape, or form".
i need someone that is confident and can hold a conversation....
is that too much to ask.
I cant do all the work all the time.
Balance is key.